Ordinary Extraordinary People

One of the things I love about Church is the wonderful people it contains.  I love seeing  people overcome difficulties in life and I love seeing talent develop; both of those indicative of works of the Spirit.  Today I was hugely blessed by the wonderful presence of God, and also by marvellous people.  I single out three in particular: 

  1. A, when we came to this church some years ago, was a fairly new Christian. We watched him grow in God and rise to the challenge of joining a full-time Christian missionary organisation.  Today he was back visiting us, still rising to challenges, this time preaching his first proper Sunday sermon ever.  He could have played it safe and preached a call to missionary service, but instead he listened to the Holy Spirit challenging him to share some of his own difficult past, to encourage others in their struggles.  Then  he also had the confidence to call people out for prayer and to minister to them.  Well, I was blessed by the message and the ministry, but also massively encouraged to see how my friend has matured as a man of God. 
  2. K, who has learning difficulties, grabbed me as soon as I entered the church building tonight to tell me that he spent two whole hours in prayer this afternoon.  He loves his Bible, can’t read it himself but makes family members and carers read it to him (a good way to witness!).  He was so excited today because he prayed for so long so fervently and felt Jesus touching him.  I am convinced that our great meeting tonight, with a palpable sense of the presence of God, can be partly attributed to K’s prayers.
  3. Z is a talented graphic designer who comes up with great ideas for publicity.  I presented her with an unreasonable request this morning:  to come up with a card/flyer for us to give away on Saturday at a Valentine themed outreach.  That’s less than a week to turn round design and printing.  I arrive home from the evening service to find an amazing design in my email inbox.  Truly astounding.

None of these people consider themselves to be extraordinary.  Each of them is.  Each of them has dedicated their life and talent to an extraordinary God.  I am privileged to know them and in awe of the God who calls us all into His family.

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A life well lived

I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.  Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.

This passage was read today at the funeral of a friend.  I didn’t know Les until he was in his 80s, by which time he was no longer able to travel the world as he had done extensively with his wife, Joy, in the past, always with the aim of introducing people to the good news of salvation through Jesus Christ.  Today, as people gave their tributes, I was reminded of some stories they had told me about those days, but realised also that there was so much more that they had done which will not be told this side of eternity.  He truly had run a good race. 

But Les also finished well.  Though by the time I knew him, his globetrotting days were just about over, that was not the end of his effectiveness for Jesus.  I am but one beneficiary.  As an inexperienced pastor, I used to visit Les and Joy, always coming away feeling inspired to do more, be better and love Jesus more.  On one notable occasion, sitting with our cups of tea in their living room, Les came straight to the point: “You’re not on the ball at the moment, Alison.  Your preaching has lost its power.”  He was right.  What I appreciated most was his honesty and gentleness:  not critical, but loving me enough not to let me get away with second-rate ministry and being less than on fire for the God he loved.  And this mild correction was given in private; at other times when he thought things were good he would say so loudly.

I’m thankful to God for Les.  He has now finished his race, and there are countless people who are in the kingdom of God, in ministry or just being better people for Jesus because of his influence in our lives.

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Happy New Year (a bit late)

Yes I am four days late with the new year wishes.  But having just come back to ‘work’ (“To what extent is pastoring a job/work? Discuss”) I am back in communication mode. I’ve spent the past few days in other forms of communication, including attempting to bankrupt or wipe out members of my family in games of Monopoly or Risk.  It’s been a great Christmas/New Year break.

As a child, I often spent New Year at my granny’s house.  This was two really small cottages knocked together at the back, but at the front there were two front doors leading to two staircases and two front rooms; brilliant for children who enjoyed creating a circuit to race round the house.  Anyway, it also made the Hogmanay tradition of door opening easier – most people would have to open the back door and then run to the front to let the old year out and the new in; my granny just stepped outside and came in the other door.

I do like New Year still.  Some years I’ve been in Edinburgh on Princes Street or the Mound with thousands of others, where everyone is your friend (though it’s only really good if you are with special people as well).  When I lived and worked in Edinburgh as a junior doctor, even the main city hospital was festive at new year; I recall asking a patient whose head wound I was stitching how he got it, to be told, “I fell off a traffic light, doctor!”  Of course.

This year I saw in the year with some of my church friends, playing silly games (does this sound familiar?) in the evening, hugs and kisses all round at midnight.  We sang Auld Lang Syne and I thought that friendships old and new are worth celebrating.

I’m not one for new year resolutions, but I do find myself thinking of new starts, of things finishing and others beginning.  What will the year bring?  I’m expecting some good things:  a wedding, a son going to university, the start of some church programmes we’ve been planning.  I expect that there will also be challenges in the year, and I expect that they will come unexpectedly.  I hope that I rise to all challenges, hold on to God, understand things better and grow through them.  I pray for people to know God better and to represent God better.

Here’s to 2011 and all that it will bring.

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Stress-free Christmas

My Christmas song of the moment is Andy Williams’s “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” largely because of the presence of the word, ‘mistletoeing’ – as in, “There’ll be much mistletoeing, and hearts will be glowing…”  A brilliant lyric, you have to agree – certainly not outshone by my friend Tony’s attempt at improving it, which included the phrase, “up will be throwing.”  I think I prefer mistletoeing both linguistically and experientially.

For lots of us, though, the expectation of its being the most wonderful time of the year actually increases our stress levels.  When you have such a lot emotionally invested, little things going wrong become major disasters.  In Britain this year, there seems to be less concentration on the ‘must have’ toy of the moment, but that’s largely because everyone is too busy being upset by not being able to travel where they want because of the snow.  “The best laid plans of mice and men gang aft agley,” as one of my countrymen wrote a couple of centuries ago.

My tip of the year for reducing Christmas stress is to remember some of Jesus’s advice (yes, the baby in the manger – he said this a few years later):

 Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal [and where the batteries run out and half the toys are broken by March anyway].  But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal [and batteries are not required].  For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Why do we spend so much on things which people don’t want, when what we really value are the things which increase our treasure in heaven?  Parents, do not teach your children that the extent to which you love them is measured by the size of the present pile; don’t buy lots of things which they will not value, and which will break anyway; try buying one thing and then spend time playing with it all day, laughing together and building memories which no-one can steal.

And how about this?

Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear [or about whether someone sent you a card and you didn't send them one, or about whether you will remember to serve the stuffing with the turkey, or about...]. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes?

For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.  But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.  Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

I really like the reminder that “your heavenly Father knows that you need them.”  God knows what we need, and I find he also knows what we enjoy, so that when I stop stressing about what I can’t do, I enjoy more the things I really value and love.  I try to make what I do dependent on what I believe and value, rather than the other way round, so this Christmas Day we are going to:

  • Be together as a family.  I’m hugely looking forward to son#1 visiting.
  • Go to church in the morning to thank God with our church family for the amazing thing he did which we celebrate at this time of year
  • Visit my elderly mother-in-law in her home, in time to watch the Queen’s speech with her and raise a glass to Her Majesty
  • Ring my mother and other relatives whom we won’t manage to see even after the day (did I mention the snow?  I think we won’t get to Scotland as planned next week)
  • Come home to a fabulous Christmas meal which I love cooking and don’t find at all stressful (despite previous experiences of dropping the turkey on the floor one year, covering my new Christmas skirt with fat; there’s also often some component of the meal that I forget to serve – but that’s all the more fabulous leftovers for the next day).  We may share this with some friends (hospitality is good!)
  • And in the middle of it all, there will be some present unwrapping, some reminiscing, some laughter and I hope a family game or two.  Maybe even some mistletoeing?

I hope that reflects where my treasure (and my heart) is.

Happy Christmas everyone!!!!!

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On Money and Integrity

I was disturbed to read a report in The Times on Saturday headlined, “Church encourages worshippers into debt so they can donate more.”  This was followed up by an editorial comment entitled, “Jesus would be shamed by this church.”  The report, on a Brazilian-based Pentecostal church in the UK, can also be found (slightly altered/maybe plagiarised but I can’t link to The Times on the web as you have to pay for it these days) on http://www.seek4media.com/money/10345-church_encourages_worshippers_into_debt.html

There’s a lot of criticism here of Pentecostal styles, but the major attack is on how funds are raised, with allegations that people are being encouraged to default on mortgages and other debts in order to give to the church.  If true, this is worrying, but I do think that there is a great deal of misunderstanding.  For example:

Times Money also attended a “healing” session, at which pastors “laid hands” on the sick, shouting at them in Portuguese. They afterwards called for offerings. The pastors then said prayers, first for those who “gave the best”, then for those who had paid tithes, and finally that those who had “nothing to give” might come into some money “so you can thank God”.

The journalist is predisposed not to believe in divine healing, has presumably never witnessed the mainstream procedure of the laying on of hands, and is probably not used to hearing loud prayers, but why is it surprising to him that the prayers were in Portuguese, in a Brazilian congregation?  Or that there should be an appeal for an offering?  Maybe it seemed over the top, but there is no damning evidence here; to pray for people with no money to come into some is sensible and compassionate, and of course they should thank God when He answers.

There are some allegations from a “former worshipper who spoke to us on condition of anonymity” who says his wife gave too much of her income:

He believed that their situation was not unusual and that some worshippers ended up worse off. He said that the Church brainwashes members by repeating that refusing to tithe is “robbing God”, for example, and telling the story of Ananias and Sapphira, who were struck down dead after withholding money (Acts V: 1-11).

Emotive language, but put another way, they sometimes preach from Malachi and Acts.  This is not evidence of exploitation: this is one disaffected, anonymous, unsubstantiated source.

The most serious allegation is of false testimony:

Further videos promote the Church’s campaigns. In one example, a young man states that he gave his car, salary and bonus in a campaign. However, he did not make a complete sacrifice because “the Devil” tempted him to keep £60 of credit on his Oyster travel card, so had only been promoted to manager of Europe at the City stock-brokers where he previously worked.

In the next campaign, he says, he gave “everything”, defaulting on his mortgage and bills. The result: a top job at another firm, involving trips to Cyprus and Eilat, Israel, with free time to spare. This man’s story is, in fact, false. He tells it again in another video on the site but names a different employer. We have learnt that he worked for neither company at the senior level described.

I have been around Pentecostalism for getting on for 30 years and have certainly seen and heard teaching about money which has been unbalanced and even exploitative.  This may be such a case but, leaving aside the video example, I believe the Times has not proven its case.  There is cultural bias here against a mixture of Pentecostal/Charismatic/Latin American enthusiasm, combined with an expectation of what should be given to churches which is based on a (fairly pitiful) Anglican norm.

What I found most revealing in the article were the figures: they say there are 10,000 worshippers in this group of churches and that the income in 2008-9 was £8.8 million.  I work that out to £880 per person.  In my south of England Pentecostal congregation (fairly working class, plenty of students and elderly people, a mixture of races but predominantly white), we have 85 members and an income in 2009/10 of just under £90,000 – just over £1000 each.  The journalist tells us that the giving in the church under scrutiny is 6 times that of the Church of England; we are meant to be scandalised.  The C of E reports that the average giving of its committed members is 3.2% of their income (Andrew Britton, Chair of the Finance Committee of the Archbishops’ Council: 2009. http://thinkinganglicans.org.uk/uploads/gsmisc913.html).  I hope that the average Pentecostal figure is indeed much more than that! 

Ah well, what can we learn?

  1. We must be transparent in all our financial dealings so that we can be seen to be people of integrity.  I am very glad that in my own denominational structure there are national finance and admin directors who work closely with the Charity Commission to ensure that our procedures are understood and stand up to scrutiny.  Also for our local treasurer and other leaders, who do things by the book.
  2. We must do our best to explain Kingdom finances in language that is accessible to those outside our structures, but we need not, indeed must not, stop talking about things such as tithing, faith or sacrificial giving.  These are mainstream Biblical concepts.
  3. We must protect the poor – also a mainstream Biblical concept.  We must never suggest that people default on loans, mortgages etc. in order to tithe, though we may help with budgeting and other financial management to help people to do both those things, to give to Caesar and to God what is respectively theirs. 
  4. Leaders who are paid by churches should be especially careful to maintain integrity.  Nehemiah in the Old Testament (Neh 5) and Paul in the New (1 Thess 2:9; 2 Cor 8:20-21) are examples to us.
  5. We must never, ever use false testimony.  Check out testimonies before allowing them to be publicised, especially on promotional material. 
  6. Finally, though it is often tempting to think that the world, especially the media, is anti-Christian and out to get us, I don’t think that’s the case.  In this case, a national quality newspaper thinks it has uncovered exploitation of the poor.  I hope it is not correct, though it may be; I think it has yet to prove its case, though there may be more evidence than has been published.  Certainly there is a clash of world-views.  But Christians are called to live lives that stand up to scrutiny from the world as well as internally (Neh 5:9; 1Peter 2:12)

May God grant us all grace!

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AGM blues? Thankfully not.

We had our church AGM tonight.  I was quite nervous before it:  I wanted it to be a meeting about vision and the future, not one in which major ciriticisms were aired (because of course I want there to be no major criticisms!).  It should not be boring; it should deal with matters of importance to the kingdom of God and not be nitpicking. 

Well, I love our church.  There was a positive, supportive spirit.  People were keen to applaud achievement and look to the future.  Our elder was re-voted into position, as were the two deacons who stood for re-election, and the three new additions to the team are younger people with talent, creativity, vision and energy. 

I’m happy.  Goodnight.

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Remembering revisited

I think I was too hasty in the post on Remembrance Day.  I wrote that post before being aware of the anti-Afghan War protesters at Hyde Park and the reaction to them on Facebook in which lots of people invited them to take the next transport out of the country or wondered why they had not been arrested.  The restrained dignity of remembrance was disrupted.

Moreover, I read in the paper on Saturday that senior military personnel are becoming concerned at the reactions of the public to the military, one even describing some responses as ‘mawkish.’  The tributes at Wooton Basset, for example, may have transformed from a town expressing appropriate honour and mourning to a nation sentimentalising the ‘brave boys’ and wallowing in faux grief.   I guess the criticism is not of Wooton Basset, but of those who have found there a bandwagon on which to jump. 

My friend Gordon, in a comment on my previous post, also implicitly, and rightly, criticises me for lack of nuance and over-positiveness about the concept of remembrance:

reading your comment you could be forgiven for thinking that you thought fighting for your country was a good thing… I think that the Church has too often be saying “hurrah boys, off you go.” as they send our best young men into hellish situations, rather than questioning the whole reasoning behind it.

Hmmm.  Actually, W (my husband) and I had a long conversation on Monday about our somewhat conflicted feelings about Remembrance Day.  The notion of patriotism itself is a minefield for Christians:  not only are we called to obey governments, but most of us do identify strongly with our country, whatever that means.  I myself am proud to identify as British (and enjoy being an expat Scot in the foreign land of England) – while knowing that I disagree strongly with some actions of my government.  Christians do have a higher loyalty, but what does that mean in practice?

In the end, I still think that Remembrance has its place.  That is not the day for anti-war protests; it does not presuppose that everyone remembered was a hero or died in a just cause; at the very least it can be a day of national mourning for lives needlessly lost.

On the day when swords, spears and AK47s are ground into ploughshares we will have every tear dried from our eyes and understand perfectly the value of every life laid down.  Till then, we see imperfectly, think that there are some things worth fighting for but are unsure whether either the ends or the means in specific instances are justified.

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Remembering

Today is Remembrance Day.  I’m glad that, as a nation, we have managed to preserve it from mawkish sentimentality, from nationalistic jingoism and from anti-war demonstrations.  The restrained dignity of the two minute silence and the weekend Cenotaph ceremony do us credit.

Governments do not always get things right – they are made up of sinful people and rightly ought to be held to account.  But they should also be honoured and obeyed.  Most especially, those who self-sacrificingly have given their lives on behalf of others in conflict should be remembered with honour.  They remind us of the greatest sacrifice of all.

This do in remembrance of me.

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Cold Calling

I do it sometimes.  I actually enjoy door-knocking with advertising for church events or just the offer to talk about spiritual things.  I’ve often been surprised at how little opposition I’ve encountered.  Sure, plenty people don’t want to talk, but usually they say, “No thank you,” quite politely, at which I smile, thank them for their time and move on. 

Which is why I try not to be unpleasant to people who call me on the phone or come to my door trying to sell me things I don’t want.  I suppose they have to make a living somehow – but who trains these people?  Is there a special school which teaches them how to get under the skin of mild-mannered, grace-inclined people such as I in the quickest time possible?

Last week I ignored a postal invitation to take out an extended warranty on our washer-dryer, which must be a whole year old now.  Today I was rung by a man from the appliance company who asked me how I find the machine.  I replied that I walk into my kitchen and there it is.  I know, I know – I couldn’t resist it.  I did immediately repent, tell him the machine was fine and I did not want an extended warranty (not that he had yet offered me one, but it was clear which way the thing was going). Ignoring the obvious hint, he asked me something else, at which I had to inform him that I also didn’t want an extended conversation.  There is seldom a polite way to end these things.

So here is my advice for cold callers, whether you be salespeople or door-to-door evangelists (ok, especially the evangelists; I care more about you).

  • Introduce yourself immediately.  
  • Be upfront about what you want or what you are offering
  • Be honest and real
  • Be prepared for objections and take them seriously
  • Accept refusal graciously

Well, I’ll never sell much double glazing, but I have had the joy of quite a lot of good conversation with people on their doorsteps, when they have time and inclination to talk to someone who isn’t trying to rip them off.  We’re not, are we?

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I need grace

I’m quite nervous now.  As you can see, I have begun to blog.  You are reading it – but you may find me boring and never come back.  I may upset you (though that would be better than boring you; we could have a dialogue).  I may run out of things to say, or more likely the self-discipline to keep saying them.  For all those circumstances I ask my future self and any readers if you are indeed out there to remember grace.  I hope that when I am annoyed by news reports or people I will remember how much I’ve been let off the hook and offer those in question some of the grace I have received.  I hope that when I disagree with people I will do so with understanding and tolerance.  And I suppose I also hope for more grace to come my way – after all, where sin abounds, God’s grace abounds all the more.  That’s something I never want to forget.

Grace to you.

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